Define Normal
Really...
Can you do it?
As a society we define normal as;
Male: tall, dark and handsome.
Female: short, blonde and skinny.
Right?
Every single one of us has characteristics that make us "abnormal" in some way shape or form! The world constantly is reminding us any of these things;
"You're skin isn't perfect!"
"You're overweight!"
"You're too short!"
"You're too tall"
"You're too skinny!"
"You're butt is too big!"
"You're butt isn't big enough!"
"You're not pretty!"
"You're not handsome!"
"You're teeth aren't white!"
"You're not strong enough!"
"You're too slow!"
"You're not smart enough!"
And my favorite. The ones that manage to throw all your flaws into one sentence:
"You're just not good enough!"
or..
"You're not worth my freedom!"
Normal is boring. We as individuals need to start defining our own bodies, personalities and destinations! Really think about what makes you different and EMBRACE it.
Here is somethings I have felt at one time or another have been a "flaw"
too skinny, ugly, awkward, bad dancer, bad singer, bad actor, demanding, bossy, unrealable, and the worst one; a bad person.
I get lost in these things and loose myself! Not only do I loose myself but I loose my light! The light that I was given and that each of us have been blessed with! It is your responsibility to shine that light! Share it with the world! I loose who I am because of stupid little insecurities I have and I cut myself off from family, friends, and everything I love because I feel inadiquit.
Challenge yourself to look at the positives in life. Challenge yourself to remember who you are. Be smart, be safe! Take the worlds constant reminders of what you aren't and throw it back at them as what you are! Watch the people who you love, or who inspire you. Learn from others mistakes. Because you can't make every mistake on your own.
Remember you are loved. Cause even if the world has left you and you feel like no one is there. You still have God. All you need to do is listen.
Hoping someone is reading,
-TK
IM READING!!! I loved it! thanks friend you serioulsy help me everytime i read your blog.. LOVE YOU!!
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